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When You Don’t Know
When You Don’t Know is the faith-based podcast for Christians navigating dating while having relationship anxiety. Hosted by Joy & Mathieu, a married couple and therapist duo, we get real about the doubts, fears, and questions that often come with love. Through honest conversations, biblical wis...
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128. Imperfect Love Stories: Marrying Someone Who’s Divorced and Has Kids
What’s it really like to marry someone who’s been married before… and already has kids?
In this week’s Imperfect Love Stories, we’...
127. Conrad or Jeremiah? Breaking Down The Summer I Turned Pretty from a Relationship Anxiety Angle
Are you Team Conrad or Team Jeremiah? In this episode, we break down The Summer I Turned Pretty love triangle from the perspective of a marriage and f...
126. When You Don’t Know if God Has Something Better for You
“Does God really take away something you love because He has something better?”
This idea has shaped so much of modern Christian d...
125. Did I Make a Mistake? Anxiety After Marriage
You got married and thought the anxiety would go away—but the doubts are still here.
“What if I made a mistake?”
“What if th...
124. Life Update: It’s Been a Difficult Month
In this episode, we’re opening up about some of the heavy things we’ve walked through over the past month. Honestly, we almost didn’t share this—but i...
123. Debunking the “Counterfeit Spouse” Myth
Have you ever heard someone say the person you’re dating might be a counterfeit — someone sent by the enemy to distract you from “God’s best”? 😳
122. How your Expectations are Ruining Your Dating Life
In this episode, we explore how idealized expectations around love, faith, and life can lead to anxiety and doubt in your relationship. If your curren...
121. Red Flag or Just a Difference?
Do you ever wonder if the differences between you and your partner are red flags—or just normal, human differences? In this episode, I’m breaking down...
120. Our Real Walk With God as a Married Couple
In this episode, we’re getting real about what our walk with God looks like as a married couple—and how it doesn’t match the polished image a lot of C...
119. Imperfect Love Stories: My Anxiety Left After We Got Married
In this episode, we interview one of the many people who has worked with us. Like us, she used to struggle with relationship anxiety but her healing j...
118. How Relationship Anxiety Is Physically Damaging Your Brain
We feel it’s important for people to know that the thoughts you dwell on are physically changing your brain. It’s important to understand that we can’...
117. If You’re Looking for a Sign from God in Your Relationship
We hope this episode was helpful for you.
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116. What’s Life Like After Overcoming Relationship Anxiety
In this episode, we share about our personal experience after we overcame relationship anxiety and got married. We’re answering the question: is it wo...
115. Is Getting Back with Your Ex a Good Idea if You Have/Had Relationship Anxiety?
Long title but we thought this was an interesting topic. We do know it’s very niche but we hope you find this helpful!
If you’d li...
114. Should I Break Up or Seek Help?
This is a question we often get, especially from people who struggle with relationship anxiety. That’s why we decided to do a podcast on it.
113. Our Story: How We Overcame Relationship Anxiety and Got Married
We actually never sat down and told our whole story. So we thought doing that would be a great way to start 2025.
We hope this is helpful and i...
112. Is My Relationship Anxiety Triggered By My Family?
Family is an interesting topic. We love them but sometimes they also can cause us to get triggered and when we have relationship anxiety, it can feel...
111. My Friends Keep Telling Me My Relationship Is Wrong. What Do I Do?
Relationship anxiety is a tricky topic and if you suffer from it, you might have shared with your friends but every time you do it you get triggered b...
110. Am I Micro Cheating On My Partner?
Some of you have reached out to us wondering about this topic. We’ve noticed people put a lot of unrealistic expectations and pressure on themselves t...
109. Imperfect Love Stories: I Married The Guy I Didn’t Want
We apologize for the quality of the audio but if you’re willing to look past it, you’ll hear amazing wisdom from this couple’s story.
Their stor...
108. How To Choose Your Spouse God’s Way
This is a topic we’ve been wanting to cover for a while and I hope you find it helpful.
Don’t hesitate to reach out to us about po...
107. Imperfect Love Stories: I Ended Up Marrying The Unexpected
We had the privilege of hosting Kait and JJ Tomlin from the Heart Of Dating podcast to share more about their love story and how dating the unexpected...
106. What If My Partner And I Are Unequally Yoked?
There’s a lot of misconceptions around the topic of being unequally yoked and that’s what we’re addressing in this episode.
We hop...
105. Imperfect Love Stories: Does He Like Someone Else?
We hope you enjoy this episode!
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104. Q&A: What If I Find My Partner Annoying?
Today, we answer a few questions you asked us on Instagram! We hope this is helpful!
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103. Imperfect Love Stories: Married For 32 Years, This Is What We've Learned
One of the couples that inspires us so much sat down with us to share their wisdom after 32 years of marriage!
We hope you enjoy this episode! <...
102. Imperfect Love Stories: We Almost Broke Up Because Of Relationship Anxiety!
In this episode, we’re starting a new series where we interview couples that are married but who have gone through hardships like relationship anxiety...
101. Four Things Marriage Taught Us
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100. Big Update For The Podcast
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99. Stop Chasing Feelings
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98. How To Build Emotional Resilience
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97. Your Relationship Isn’t Wrong, Your Expectations Are
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96. Is My Partner Going To Take God’s Place In My Life?
A lot of Christians are worried about their love for their partner taking the place of their love for God. If that’s what you’re wondering about, we a...
95. What If I’m Not Obsessed With My Partner?
A lot of people come up to us and worry about the fact that they’re not constantly thinking about their partner and if that means they don’t truly lov...
94. When Should You Know You Want To Marry Them?
In this episode, we respond to one of our followers questions about marriage. A lot of people have different opinions on this and unfortunately some o...
93. Are You Settling For Less In Your Relationship?
In this episode, we react to tour reel a lot of our followers were triggered by. Basically, in that reel, someone explains they almost missed out on m...
92. How Prepared Should You Be To Date?
This was a question we received in our emails a couple weeks ago and we thought it would be an amazing topic. We hope this is helpful and if you’d lik...
91. Should It Be This Hard?
That’s a question we often get when it comes to relationship anxiety. If your relationship is good, why is it that it is so hard when you have anxiety...
90. Stepping Into The Unknown In Relationships
A big part of committing to a relationship is the fear of the unknown, the fear that maybe something will go wrong, that we’ll end up in marriage that...
89. Are You Uncomfortable With The Opposite Gender?
We decided to share about this topic because we receive a lot of questions or concerns about people interacting with the opposite gender, especially i...