Why His Wife Didn’t Suspect Me: Chronicles From The Other Woman

If My Partner Withholds Intimacy, Does That Give Me License To Cheat?

Your husband refuses to have sex with you. He won’t kiss you, touch you or show you any affection at all.


You feel neglected, aban...

I Was Just A Kids— And I Kept My Dad’s Affair From My Mom

You have a 16 year affair. You share passionate days and evenings, off-the-charts sex and romantic getaways. You're madly in love with your affair par...

A Renowned Matchmaker On Infidelity & What His Clients Won’t Tolerate

Some still believe that a wife’s role is to stay at home with her children, tend to her family, and be devoted to her husband. In Western culture thes...

How Cheating Turns Love Bonding Into Hysterical Bonding

They cheat. You go back. They cheat again, you go back again. Your intuition is screaming that something is off and they’re being unfaithful, yet you...

The Husband Who Could Not Stop Cheating

My guest on this episode is a serial cheater and exhibitionist who watches porn, pays for sex acts, sleeps with other women, and regularly lies to his...

My Wife Cheated On Me With A Homeless Man

You're a husband. A good guy, a strong provider and a very present father. Despite that, your wife is not satisfied and has an affair with a man who h...

Why I Always Take Him Back Despite Nonstop Cheating and Lies

Imagine that your husband has cheated on you with more than five different women (that you’re aware of) and that one of those affairs was while you we...

Affair After Affair: My Life As The Perpetual Other Woman

What if you're often the side piece - time after time the other woman. First you have an affair with your husband's work colleague. Then you cheat on...

Are You Micro Cheating?

What is micro cheating and are you doing it? Micro cheating describes behaviors that may be considered infidelity, but the boundary between micro chea...

Cheating & Narcissistic Abuse Nearly Ended My Life: A Feminist’s True Story

No one is immune to relationship betrayal. Anyone can be deceived and lied to by their partner. Do you believe that? My guest today, Kathi Miner PhD a...

How My Lying, Cheating, Boyfriend Fooled Our Couples’ Therapist And Me.

There are times when your partner's lies, deception, and gaslighting are so carefully crafted and meticulously masked, he not only fools you, he hoodw...

Betrayed and Broken: The Physical Toll of Infidelity

The emotional trauma that follows heartbreak after an affair can be devastating. We can experience sadness, depression and isolation. But how does an...

Your Kids Know About Your Affair: They're Just Not Telling You

You're having an affair and you think your kids don't know it? Well think again. My guest today is an extraordinary young woman who wrote in to share...

My Cheating Husband Impersonates Our Family and Friends In Fake Social Media Accounts

Do you really know your partner? After years together as a couple, can you confidently say you know everything about them—everything they do and every...

How I Turned His Cheating and Betrayal Into A Thriving Business

Turn your mess into your message. My guest today also named Jillian did just that. Her boyfriend cheated on her from the beginning of their relationsh...

I Can't Hate My Husband's Lover Anymore

A woman comes into your husband's life and captures his heart. Your husband and his new lover share emotional and physical intimacy and he can't seem...

When Your Husband Moves His Affair Partner Into Your House

What if you suspected your partner had a secret lover. You could just feel in your gut. Something in your relationship changed, and you're convinced y...

Does Your Partner Cheat Because You Lack Self Respect ?

Imagine if you could change your thinking and behavior in such a way to prevent your significant other from cheating on you. What if you could partial...

He Says He's Committed, But Acts Like He's Single

Deception, lies, and gaslighting. Are they the most hurtful part of an affair, or is it the sex and knowing that your partner may be madly in love wit...

I Thought It Was Just One Affair, Then I Uncovered The Horrible Truth

This week we are bringing back another favorite episode.
Your husband has an affair which leads you to ask for a divorce. But it's what you dis...

Your Subconscious Keeps Picking The Cheater

For years the buzzword was attracting, as in "you attract the partner you have in your life." Then the term "manifesting" took over, and suddenly ever...

When Your Spouse's Affair Is The Best Thing That Ever Happened To You

Josh and Sharon are two formerly married people whose spouses cheated on them. Before they were married, Sharon's husband covered up the truth about h...

My Husband Was A Violent Cheater

My guest today whom we’ll call Victoria, was emotionally and physically abused by her boyfriend. What began as incidents of grabbing and pushing escal...

I Was Blindsided By The Affair, Then My Intuition Kicked In

About two years ago, a guy friend said to me "I know my best friend and he would never cheat on his wife. He just wouldn't do it." Because of this pod...

I Secretly Tracked My Husband On An App and Was Shocked By What I Caught Him Doing

Let’s call this episode the Halloween edition because I am spooked by guest’s husband’s very odd behavior—like getting fake restaurant receipts to pro...

My Husband's Lover Got Pregnant. What Do I Do Now?

In this week's classic episode
It's hard to think of a more demoralizing and debilitating situation than this: your husband has an affair, and h...

My Husband’s Affair With His Hospital Nurse

I remember once a famous LA doctor said to me, Jillian everything seems so important until you get sick, then once you're sick the only thing that mat...

My Lover’s Wife Became My Ally

Bringing back a favorite episode this week….The man you've fallen in love with is another woman's husband. As much as you try to resist the lure of hi...

Why Committed Partners Cheat On Dating Apps

Do dating apps drive people to cheat? Do dating apps facilitate cheating? Or do dating apps have nothing to do with cheating at all?

Are Your Partner and Their “Best Friend” A Little Too Close For Comfort ?

Is your spouse’s best friend too close for comfort? Does your partner’s BFF get more attention, time and better treatment than you?
When you st...

I Was Blindsided By The Affair, Then My Intuition Kicked In

About two years ago, a guy friend said to me "I know my best friend and he would never cheat on his wife. He just wouldn't do it." Because of this pod...

Will My Unfaithful Partner Leave Me For Their Lover?

You are single and you’re having an affair with someone who is married or is a committed partner. You desperately want to know if your lover is going...

My Husband's Lover Got Pregnant. What Do I Do Now?

For the Labor Day holiday we are bringing back one of our most compelling episodes. It's hard to think of a more demoralizing and debilitating situati...

Lovers Explain Why We Chose Each Other Not Our Spouses

Tony and Nicole were secret lovers who became a couple after they cheated on and eventually left their spouses. They have that super passionate kind o...

Stuck Overseas With My Cheating Ex Husband + I Can't Go Home

You meet the man of your dreams and you fall madly in love. He's from another country, and his homeland is far from yours. One day he gets his dream j...

Devastated: My husband neglects me but spoils his lover

Your husband‘s affair partner has a brand new car, and you’re driving a 10 -year-old model. Your husband‘s affair partner has a brand new air conditio...

My Passionate Affair With A Pastor

My guest today whom we’ll call Pam, was a pastor’s affair partner. She is married, and so is the pastor.

Pam believes that she wasn’t the...

Can Cash Keep You Silent About Your Affair?

Could you be paid to keep your affair silent? Would a big fat check keep you from exposing your affair when your married affair partner goes back to h...

My Best Friend Had An Affair With My Boyfriend

Your partner cheats on you with your best friend. Sadly we have heard this tale many times before. But what if instead of being contrite and remorsefu...