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Was That Good For You?
Was That Good For You? is a guide to all things sex and relationships. Every week, sex educator Raya Carmona talks openly and honestly with guests on topics ranging from navigating interracial dating to normalizing kinks in the bedroom to the trajectory of becoming a sugar baby. Through candid conve...
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Is Cheating In Past Relationships A Dealbreaker? - Q&A
We tackle so many unique questions on this week's Q&A and there's truly something for everyone. One listener is looking for tips on diving into kink f...
Social Media's Effect On Relationships
This is my first round table episode in over a year! On this week's episode, I had two of my favorite couples over to discuss social media and its eff...
Sex 101: Back To Basics
It's okay to be early on in your sexual journey than others. We don't shame around here! If you feel like you need a refresher on sex education, looki...
Sometimes NOT Communicating Is The Answer - SOLO!
On this month's solo episode, I discuss how important emotion regulation has become to me, for myself and for the sake of my relationship. I also talk...
Navigating Desire Differences & Owning Your Vanilla-ness feat. Yana Tallon-Hicks
I had couples & relationships therapist, consent, sex & sexuality writer and educator Yana Tallon-Hicks on the show this week! We discussed how to nav...
You Can't Punish Someone For Not Loving You - Q&A
This month's Q&A is one of those episodes where there's something for everyone. If any of the advice you hear today might resonate with someone you kn...
Vaginal Health 101 feat. The Yoni Nutritionist
I had Adrienne, also known as The Yoni Nutritionist, on the show today for a crash course in vaginal and sexual health. Adrienne is a certified nutrit...
Having The Safe Sex Conversation feat. Safe Slut
This week I had the incredible Tricia Wise, also known as Safe Slut, on the show. We talked about life with genital herpes, how reiki can help heal se...
The Emotional Side of Being a Cam Girl feat. Banksie
I had award-winning global CamStar, Lindsey Banks, on the show today. Banksie, who is a veteran in the adult industry, has also been on multiple panel...
Boyfriend Is Too Big, Navigating Pronouns Around Family, & Snooping Gone Wrong - Q&A!
For our last Q&A of the year, Gabby and I tackle a ton of listener-submitted questions! We discuss how to work around a penis that's too big, navigati...
Overcoming Sexual Anxiety feat. Dr. Tara
I had the incredible Dr. Tara on the show today to discuss overcoming sexual anxiety. Dr. Tara is a tenured professor of relational and sexual communi...
Addictive Relationships & The Need For Validation - SOLO
This is an episode that starts off as one thing, goes into an entirely different thing and then somehow comes full circle and works relatively cohesiv...
Dating While Trans, Bisexuality, & Navigating Fetishization
Kristofer and I became online friends over the pandemic and after reading his essay "Dad Used To Have Boobs (And They Were Kind Of Big)," I knew I wan...
How To Give Better Oral, Car Sex 101 & When To Call It Quits - Q&A!
Gabby is back for this month's listener-submitted Q&A and let me tell you - this is a crazy one. We got more personal than ever while discussing the b...
Boyfriend Is Too Big, Navigating Pronouns Around Family & Snooping Gone Wrong - Q&A!
For our last Q&A of the year, Gabby and I tackle a ton of listener-submitted questions! We discuss how to work around a penis that's too big, navigati...
The Art Of The Dominatrix
I had professional dominatrix Lucy Sweetkill on the show today to walk us through life as a dominatrix with over 10 years of experience. From how she...
A Conversation With My Ex!
This was one of the most fun episodes I've ever recorded on the show. I invited my ex (and now very good friend) Chris to join me for a very candid co...
The Glamorization Of Stripping, Escorting & Online Sex Work
My good friend Cici joins me today to chat about all things sex work. Cici has spent time as a dancer, an escort and an OnlyFans creator, so we discus...
Keeping An Ex's Nudes, How To Ask For Better Sex, Watching Gay Porn - Q&A!
Gabby joins the show for our first monthly Q&A of the season and we've got some wild listener-submitted questions. How unethical is it to masturbate t...
Life With Herpes feat. Suzbub
Of all the STIs, why does herpes carry such a heavy stigma? When did it become the sexual boogeyman? Suzanna Brusikiewicz is determined to change that...
The Media is Making Your Sex Worse
No one knows marketing and media more than this week’s guest and my good friend Kristi. We met during our time working at Playboy, so we kick off the...
The Pressure Of Perfection - SOLO EP!
It's my first episode of the new season! Solo episodes are hard for me. I suffer from serious imposter syndrome. As you can see from the title of the...
Co-Creative vs. Performative Sex
This week, I'm joined by Portia - the founder & creator of Froetic Sexology. We discuss the ways in which we were taught about sex as well as how it c...
Better Sex (& Love) Through MDMA
This week, I'm so excited to be joined by Charles & Shelley Wininger. Over the past 20 years, Charley, 71 years old, and Shelley, 69 years old, have f...
Being A Nasty Woman
I had porn collage artist Lisa Be and photographer Rina Mov on to discuss what it means to be a "nasty woman." We debate the best time to start being...
Discussing Kink With A 24/7 Collared Submissive
This week, I chat with BDSM educator & 24/7 collared submissive Lina Dune to dispel some myths surrounding BDSM and the kink community, including how...
Repression & Religion
This week, I'm joined by musician Bonavega to discuss coming from a religious background and breaking out of that shell. Bonavega details how he's fou...
Writing Songs About Exes with almondmilkhunni
This week, I had my friend and musician almondmilkhunni on discuss her dating life and explosive career, the pressure she feels from being on social m...
Doomsturbating & Beginner Sex Toys with Gabrielle Kassel
This week, I talk with sex journalist and sex toy enthusiast Gabrielle Kassel to chat about masturbation, sex toys, and so much more. Gabrielle explai...
Ethical Non-Monogamy 101 with Gabrielle Smith
This week, writer and polyamory ethical non-monogamy resource Gabrielle Smith joins me to discuss how to navigate opening a relationship to polyamory...
Sex Magick & Witchcraft
This week, I had author and certified witch Gabriela Herstik on to discuss Sex Magick (not to be confused with "magic") and how sexual energy is cruci...
Cuckolding, Sex Ed & More With Liz Goldwyn
This week, I'm joined by author and host of "The Sex Ed" Podcast, Liz Goldwyn to discuss how there is no such thing as a late bloomer, the many short-...
“Hot Guy” Stereotypes: The Rockstar
This week, I chat with musician Ryan Scott Graham, a member of State Champs (and Gabby's boyfriend)! We talk about why people fall for musicians, what...
OnlyFans & Sex Work In Today's World
This week, I had actress, musician and OnlyFans creator Erika Heidewald on to discuss the recent takeover of OnlyFans by millionaire celebrities (Bell...
Incorporating Cannabis Into Your Sex Life
This week, I had journalist and author of two sex & cannabis books, "The Little Book of CBD for Self-Care" & "Finding Your Higher Self: Your Guide to...
The Stigma Of Young Marriage (& Divorce)
This week, I'm joined by my friend Morgan Grimes who was married (and divorced) at a young age. She discusses how people, both older relatives and pee...
The Madonna-Whore Dichotomy
This week, I had the lovely Shani Long on to discuss the double standards when it comes to owning your sexuality. We discuss the Madonna-Whore Dichoto...
Factoring Astrology Into Dating With Colin Bedell!
This week, I'm joined by Astrologer Colin Bedell AKA QueerCosmos to discuss how no two signs are ever incompatible when it comes to relationships, som...
Asexuality and Its Many Misconceptions ft. Yasmin Benoit
This week, I had model and asexuality advocate Yasmin Benoit on the show to discuss the many misconceptions around asexuality. We also chat about how...
Zoom Orgies, Male Bisexuality & Butt Stuff ft. Zachary Zane
This week, I'm joined by the amazing speaker/author/activist Zachary Zane to discuss how Zoom virtual sex orgies work, how non-monogamous couples are...