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Savage Lovecast
Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your sex and relationship questions and yaps about politics. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, record your question and send it to Q@Savage.Love, or call 206-302-2064. For a much longer version of the show, with no ad...
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Savage Lovecast Episode 989
Compare and contrast these two body image calls: A woman's boyfriend is so insecure about his big body, that he can't get hard. She thinks he's hot as...

Savage Lovecast Episode 988
A woman and her boyfriend, (in an open relationship) tried shibari and enjoyed the intimacy of it. She suggested they exclusively practice shibari wit...

Savage Lovecast Episode 987
How can a woman safely indulge her kink when the thing that turns her on is fear?
A man is convinced that his bidet use makes him pee mo...

Savage Lovecast Episode 986
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A gay man is lucky to be in a throuple relationship. But he w...

Savage Lovecast Episode 985
A man in a poly triad has a girlfriend. His girlfriend has a boyfriend, and they all live together, share a dog, and plan to have kids. The caller and...

Savage Lovecast Episode 984
A married mother did some sex work in her younger, wilder days. She's turned on by money, so it seems obvious that she should be a findom. But the ty...

Savage Lovecast Episode 983
A man's 80 year-old father is getting scammed and extorted by a findom. Should he go to the police? Change his account numbers? See a marriage counsel...

Savage Lovecast Episode 982
A woman's old friend and sometime lover asked her for a beaver shot to ease his stress on an upcoming couples trip. She obliged. Did he thank her? No...

Savage Lovecast Episode 981
A cute li'l gal worries she just isn't a very convincing dom. How can she use psychology to establish her sexy top role?
A newly out pan...

Savage Lovecast Episode 980
"Not generous." That is what a gay man puts on his app profile to signify that he is not interested in sex workers. Is this offensive?
H...

Savage Lovecast Episode 979
A woman is grappling with the dubious ethics of financial domination. Her friend asked her to do it, and she made a quick, easy $1k. But she knows tha...

Savage Lovecast Episode 978
While tidying up after some Airbnb guests, a gay man discovered a vibrator left under the pillow. Should he message the couple and offer to send it ba...

Savage Lovecast Episode 977
A woman's boyfriend wants her to drug him, have her way with him and share him with her friends. He did this before with an ex, and loved it. She's in...

Savage Lovecast Episode 976
The woman in a married couple that does not want children accidentally got pregnant. This happened once before, and she learned that her husband is ag...

Savage Lovecast Episode 975
A queer woman has a non-binary, AFAB spouse. Her partner can mime the action of cunnilingus with their tongue, flicking and teasing across the dinner...

Savage Lovecast Episode 974
A woman in her late 40s is struggling to process a relationship she had when she was in college. She slept with a former professor of hers but then go...

Savage Lovecast Episode 973
Her boyfriend of one year is perfect in every way! Except...he is stoned literally all the time. But he's a great lover, communicates well, and truly...

Savage Lovecast Episode 972
We start the show with two calls concerning the "post nut" state of mind. One man hates that he becomes selfish and unresponsive so much that he choos...

Savage Lovecast Episode 971
When she was in high school, she surprised herself and delighted her boyfriend by squirting all over his face. But the incident alarmed her enough to...

Savage Lovecast Episode 970
A married woman in a poly relationship is planning to visit a boyfriend who lives in a different city for a month. But since they made these plans, sh...

Savage Lovecast Episode 969
A man in Nashville keeps having great dates, but then they reject him afterwards. Is it because he's a liberal Jew?
A woman is in a new,...

Savage Lovecast Episode 968
A man in a queer group chat saw that folks were talking about going to a bathhouse in their city for the first time. The caller explained what goes on...

Savage Lovecast Episode 967
HA man briefly dated a guy who only bottoms, and collects a variety of giant dildos. The caller worries that his natural size would never satisfy a ma...

Savage Lovecast Episode 966
Oh boy! A threesome might be brewing! A woman just connected with a hot guy through an app. He has another woman he sees, and the three of them plan t...

Savage Lovecast Episode 965
Ooh la la! A young Canadian woman has been living in a European city, making friends and... having group sex. She doesn't speak their language- her fr...

Savage Lovecast Episode 964
My what a busy friend! While a woman and her boyfriend were going through a painful, temporary separation, she confided in and was consoled by a male,...

Savage Lovecast Episode 963
A chill married lesbian is a little annoyed to hear that her consistently straight friend, engaged to a man, has announced that she is pan. She is pan...

Savage Lovecast Episode 962
A gay man and his boyfriend are in an open relationship. His boyfriend forbids the caller from messing around with anyone in their friend group. But t...

Savage Lovecast Episode 961
A woman has made a new exciting friend! But this friend ditches her other friends and treats them as disposable. Is the caller next?
Her...

Savage Lovecast Episode 960
A man chanced upon his wife's journals when he was cleaning the closets. He simply couldn't help himself. He read some of them, and learned about her...

Savage Lovecast Episode 959
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Savage Lovecast Episode 958
A woman is seeing a guy who only grudgingly goes down south. Sex for them always begins with her giving him a BJ, but because they have a Dom/sub dyna...

Savage Lovecast Episode 957
Age gap relationships! Sometimes they are a-ok. Sometimes they are not. A woman is having an argument with her boyfriend about whether his previous re...

Savage Lovecast Episode 956
A woman's 74 year-old father has started dating a 19 year-old woman, and no one in her family besides her is batting an eye. She is horrified and refu...

Savage Lovecast Episode 955
Pages and pages of escort ads. That's what she found on her boyfriend's phone when she was looking for concert tickets. He insisted he wasn't actually...

Savage Lovecast Episode 954
A married gay man is newly poly with his husband and boyfriend. Simple question: Who should he celebrate Valentine's Day with?
A non-binary AFA...

Savage Lovecast Episode 953
A straight man was accidentally paired with a trans man on a hookup app. When the trans man found out his match was a straight dude, he tapped out. Bu...

Savage Lovecast Episode 952
A straight man worries that his one-on-one OnlyFans interactions are a form of infidelity.
A divorced man is out dating and learning about tant...

Savage Lovecast Episode 951
A gay man is mourning the loss of his hair. He shaved it all off, but doesn't like the new look. Are there any other options? How can he learn to love...

Savage Lovecast Episode 950
A very happy Feast of The Ass to you all!
We asked you to send us your carols and boy, did you ever deliver. Hear a smattering of our picks, and...